When I was a little girl, I believed in fairy tales... that fantasy of what life would be. White dress, a prince charming who would carry me away to a castle on a hill. I would lie in bed at night and close my eyes and had complete and utter faith. Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, Prince Charming, they were so close I could taste them, but one day the fairy tale disappeared. It's hard to let go of that fairy tale entirely because we all have that smallest bit of hope, of faith, that one day we will open our eyes and it will come true. Then one day you realize that the fairy tale may be slightly different than you dreamed. The castle, well, it may not be a castle. This life, with all of its complexities, may be the fairy tale after all, because the journey is the best part. It's Happily Ever After...right now.

Friday, November 2, 2012

Protective Princessness

I love to ask people, "If you could have dinner with 5 people, who would choose?"  I find the answers very telling.  I had a date with a guy whose responses included Vin Diesel and Tanya Tucker.  One date only.

My list includes Princess Diana.  I know that those of you who know me well will think that my interest is because of her princessness. :)  While I won't deny that I woke up at some ungodly hour on a day in 1981 to watch the wedding of the century in real time, that isn't where my intrigue lies.  Nor is my interest because of her vast wardrobe, enormous shoe collection, staff at her beck and call, or the fact that her home address was a castle.  I admire the woman once called Lady Diana Spencer, because she was a strong woman, and a great mom.

She married very young to a man who didn't deserve her, accommodating his life completely.  Though her life should have been a fairy tale, she said that she didn't really know love until her first son was born.  She refused to leave her infant with a nanny when she traveled.   In time her second son came along, and the boys were her sole priority. 

Even after her divorce, Diana continued to be protective of her boys, and attempted to give them as "normal" a life as possible.  Her oldest became her confidant, giving his mother advice on everything from her work to dating.  She was known for being fiercly independent, quoting, I like to be a free spirit. Some don't like that, but that's the way I am.” 

And, she was a vegetarian. 

In Bliss, Shugie

They say it is better to be poor and happy than rich and miserable, but how about a compromise like moderately rich and just moody?
~Diana Princess of Wales

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